Her philosophy

Watch and talk to Woody Allen
Visit London and San Francisco, and stay for no longer than 3 years.
Live in Paris for the rest of your life, but never visit the place as a tourist.
Listen to old music in new times, and vice versa. 
Know the difference between friends and acquaintances. 
Identify what you should do for a living, by those which top your expense list items.
Lies aren't bad.
What's other people's business isn't your business.
Assume everyone is smart, not stupid.
Don't be a follower.
Create your own moves.
Know what to talk at what occasions.
Shut up if you can't be sure of what you say.
Observe.
Constantly examine your own belief and philosophy, careful not to conflict yourself.
Give yourself performance review.
Save left overs is worth being proud of.
When you are a leader, act like a leader.
Manage your people with disciplines on yourself first.
Treasure the time spent with your family now.
Read the books you buy.
Compliment everyone
Control your emotions. If you can't, control your urge to leave the house.